Poem by Jillian Pasley4 time cancer survivor
2 time bone marrow recipient
All around COOL KID!!!
i'm pretty, sensitive and wise
i wish to go to Rhode island
i dream to find a cure for cancer
i want to sky dive and be famous
i wonder about heaven
i'm scared of death
i like food and to sleep
i believe i can talk to my sister even if she is dead
i love my mommy
i want to be a chef
this is me because god is with me
Tips for Coping with Nausea
Unfortunately, the best way to fight nausea is to find the right medication combination of anti-nausea meds that work for your child. Work with the nurses and doctors to find what works best and the same meds don't work for every child. Kytril didn't work for Sarah AT ALL, but worked fine for our friend's daughter. Also realize over time, what worked in the beginning may not work by the end of the course of treatment and you might have to change.
Listen to what your child tells you about certain foods and drinks and don't push it around chemo time if there is something they don't want. Sarah ate very little before chemo, and that helped her not to feel quite so sick some of the time.
Sometimes the med also cause a funny taste in their mouth and that adds to the nausea, Sarah loved Sweet Tarts and that helped kill the funny taste from the meds. Usually a sour or mint flavor did the best.
It seemed as though Gabe developed a tolerance to certain medications, close to the end of therapy we had to switch nausea meds as he started to become more nauseous and sick.
-Lu
As for the nausea let your child pick when and what to eat. They know their bodies better than anyone else and know when they can take in something and it has a good chance of staying down.
-Kim
When you know they will have chemo, try to limit foods/drinks that are your stand-bys. Lina loved apple juice and milk and during one 4 day hospital-stay-chemo, she drank literally gallons of each. She developed a strong aversion after that, and wouldn't take anything but water afterward
-Natalie
There are now suckers available to assist with feelings of nausea, I cannot say that they worked for Gabe as they were not available then, but I hear good things about them.
You can order them at
www.threelollies.com
-Lu
Adding Calories to Food.
Carnation Instant Breakfast works very well and can be used to make chocolate milk and milkshakes. It tastes much better than Ensure! It also doesn't feel as bad as many foods when they have mouth sores. Cook with whole milk, butter and oil. Make the calories count; if they want steak, feed them steak. Call their favorite restaurant and see if they will make an exception and give you a reservation and a table out of the crowds. We were very lucky and some of her favorite places would work with us when her counts were low or we had to work around an IV med schedule. The fun of eating out sometimes boosts their appetite
When making anything that requires milk, I would use half and half instead. It is also makes everything taste so much better with the added fat!
-Kim
Seems like it's easier to "drink" meals than eat them. We did lots of smoothies & shakes (always trying to sneak in a spoonful of peanut butter here and there). Never gave a drink of anything without pouring something in (e.g. milk = Carnation Instant Breakfast - lots of flavors, try it until they like one; juice = soy supplement that added protein and calories, even added this to soda when that was the hot ticket).
Most of all, try not to stress too much. If all they want to eat is Pringles or Cheetos (always good back-ups it seems...) give it to them and remember this too shall pass!
-Natalie
Contributions from:Kim, Natalie and Lu
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